Private parts massage is a huge concern. Moreover, this is the biggest question and the irony is we can’t even ask others. The topic is more like a taboo thinking others will judge us if we ask.
But out of curiosity I too had the same question – Do massage therapists massage private parts or not? Do they treat private body parts similar to other body parts? Is it the massage therapist or the customer who feels awkward?
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Private Parts Massage: What Do I Think?
All these questions and a lot more boggle our mind when it comes to a massage. On top of it, I have already shared my views on private parts massage. Click here to read – Does full body massage include private parts?
In this article, I will share the point of view and opinions of expert massage therapists and subject advisors. Okay, let me tell you this.
I am not conducting any kind of clinical research where I have a panel of doctors sitting and advising you on private parts massage. No. Instead I have collected opinions of traditional massage therapists and masseuses.
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These opinions seem to be more logical and practical instead of boring and cliche trials. They come straight from the people who have either experienced it or done it themselves.
So let’s hear from them.
Do Massage Therapists Massage Private Parts?
To support the statements I have linked the personal profiles and official website pages of the massage therapists, advisors, experts and masseuses. Feel free to browse these links for more info.
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1. Kiara Dany, Advisor & Masseuse
Yes. I can say as I’m a masseuse for a long time now and it’s my profession. But not every spa, hotel and parlous have such faculties. Wherever this happens, it gets a sex selling label or is widely illegal.
Coming to the massage, more than 80% are done on a normal body starting from head to toes except for private organs. Besides, more than 70% clients are either shy, uncomfortable or pretty embarrassed to even undress fully or get their private parts massaged.
So what you usually see in movies or tv isn’t true at all that all massages are sensual. Its bullshit! But then there are clients who purely dream and demand sensual massages. Some spas don’t entertain such activities.
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2. Richard Lam, Registered Massage Therapist
It can depend on your definition of private parts – especially since some people are more open to their buttocks being massaged than others. To have any of these areas worked on, I would need the following from you:
- Your written consent – A legal document that shows I reviewed what’s going to happen when we work on your sensitive areas.
- A specific clinical indication – A reason why I need to work on that area. It can’t be because you like butt massages, or worse than if I tried to use that excuse
- An understanding you can stop or change the treatment at any time – If you want to stop half-way, or 2 seconds after beginning or you just don’t want a massage anymore, you’re allowed to stop at any time
I need all three of these things from you.
So, yes massage therapists do private parts massage. But not in a sexual, or nefarious manner, and not for any self-gain.
If you feel like a certain area could be worked on, talk with your health care professional to see what needs to be done. Communication is key in health care, and you have the ultimate say in what you want or don’t want to be done.
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3. Julia Wilson Certified Massage Therapist & Certified Aromatherapist.
Okay. Let’s clear something up to start with. As some have pointed out, different cultures and different countries have different regulations on such things and different “taboos” on that style of massage. This is true.
However, in the U.S. it is unethical and illegal for a massage therapist to work on a client’s private parts (aka genitals).
If a massage therapist in the U.S. offers to give a massage of the genitals in any other case, then they are either ignoring the laws and ethical regulations of their profession, or they are not a licensed massage therapist at all.
Now, in other cultures and countries, such styles of massage are sometimes permitted, and that can cause issues and misunderstandings when folks from those areas of the world come over here and expect the same kind of massage treatments that they were used to in their home area.
I had to instruct a client originally from another country that it was not acceptable for him to expect sexual pleasure from my treatments, because that was something he had been formerly used to and he didn’t realize that it was an issue here.
So in short, no, licensed professionals in the U.S. will not massage your genitals unless for a very valid medical reason accompanied by a doctor’s instructions (and even then, that’s extremely rare).
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4. WarHorse, Senior Executive From Pharma Industry
Yes. If both the client and the masseur are willing. Sometimes the client asks for one depending on how their mood/intention is and how they fancy the masseur and their touch/service. Masseurs also read body language especially if it’s a cross-gender massage.
Usually, it is at the end of the regular massage when masseurs announce that the massage is over and ask if the client wants any extra service. That’s the cue for a quick discussion and then the description and cost are agreed or negotiated.
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Masseurs usually are careful because of undercover police checks and therefore ask this question with familiar clients. As a client, if you need a private parts massage you need to display comfort which includes chatting with the masseur.
If you are bold to take a nude massage then it is a strong cue to the masseur. Opening legs wide to offer better access for inner thighs is also a good sign. Asking for a buttock massage can also be one. If you show signs of arousal like moaning or an erection then the masseur gets an unmistakable message.
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A massage is an experience that can be very pleasurable for the muscles and joints and induces relaxation. Comforts like privacy, darkness, air conditioning, piped music, room fragrance as well as perfumed massage oils enhance the overall experience.
A lot of people go off to sleep. Being pleasure zones of our body, genitalia, breasts, buttocks if manipulated well can add to the pleasure of a massage. Unless you believe that your private parts and genitalia are to be handled by you or your partner only, getting a special massage is a great experience. Try it and let me know. Cheers!
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Carolyn Barbero Studied Massage Therapy at The Soma Institute (2014)
I feel like there are different answers to this question due to cultural differences. In the US, a licensed massage therapist does not, and should not touch your private parts. “Therapists” willing to touch your private parts are prostitutes working under the term masseuse. Massage is not meant to be sexual in any way, but therapeutic and healing.
In other cultures, it might be perfectly normal for an individual to have their privates touched during the massage. I can’t speak to other cultures though.
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Craig Anderson, A Former Masseur & Reflexologist
It depends on what you call the privates because there is a time when I was a therapist in the VA hospital in FL, I had to do massages for some of the cancer patients, so in some cases, their prostrate massages were required. It wasn’t my favorite massages, but it was part of the job on most of these were painful depending on the degree of the patient’s condition.
When I was in Japan I was taught by a group of geisha girls the art of aligning the chakra, but the closest this is supposed to come to the privates is on the root point at your base, otherwise, if you go any farther your preforming a happy ending massage, so I would get extra for that.
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Elaine Martin, Licensed Self-Employed Massage Therapist
Licensed Massage Therapists do not perform private parts massage.
During a professional massage, you also stay covered, or ‘draped’ with a sheet, and the sheet is folded back to uncover just what is being worked on at that time.
If someone does private parts massage they are not “Authentic Massage Therapist” they are someone using massage as a disguise to cover their real business.
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Karen L. Pringle, Wellness Coach
I don’t do private parts massage. It is against the law, most of my clients would not want their sexual organs or breasts massaged. I do massage the upper breast but never over the nipples.
We have a varied population and although I went to a naturalist place to train in massage therapy that was an entirely different setting and still, we did not do sexual organs.
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Shari Brewster, Massage Therapist
As a trained professional massage therapist, the answer to your question is No! It is illegal in the USA to do private parts massage. Now sex workers who call themselves a massage therapist or masseuse who are operating illegally most possible will.
If you don’t want to have your private parts massaged then go to a properly licensed and trained massage therapist. If you do want your private parts massaged then look for someone else.
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Bro, may we first ask for extra service then will end up getting message ? Because after getting tired by that things we need some messages .. so may we do like that ? Will I need to tell by my own or anything else.. please suggest me
That can be done. It’s a good idea. You can always eat dessert first instead of the main course. Normally each and every Thai and russian massage therapist including Indians offer extra services. It just the matter of price. Some charge more some less. You can ask them straight forward about it along with the price. If you search spareviews, I have written about extra services, charges, how to ask, how massage therapist trick you to kick you out as soon as possible from the room and so on. Just ask what you want.